A dating app match pointed out my opener was 'textbook bot energy'

So last Tuesday I matched with this girl on Hinge and sent a pretty standard opener about her hiking photo. She replied back with 'lol did you copy that from a script' and then explained how she'd been matching with obvious bots for weeks and my message had the same vibe. She even listed the tells: generic compliment, no specific detail from the photo, and asking a question that's super easy to answer with a yes or no. That hit different because I thought I was being normal. She unmatched after I asked if she had any tips. Has anyone else had a real person call out their message pattern as bot-like? Now I'm paranoid my replies to everyone sound robotic.

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