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Before divorce I handled every bill and budget, after I split finances 50/50 and it's been 6 months now

I always paid all the household bills and tracked every dollar, but my ex barely knew what utilities cost. Now she handles half the accounts and honestly she's way more stressed than I expected. Which side works better for getting through a divorce - keeping control of everything or forcing equal responsibility?
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johnson.river
Keeping the split fair made everything feel less one-sided for me.
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murray.robert
murray.robert2d agoMost Upvoted
Fair splits just hit different.
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ray_sullivan
Honestly, until someone orders the fanciest thing on the menu and expects me to split it evenly.
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