The moment I knew it was over was in the grocery store parking lot.
We were in Tampa, middle of July. She said she forgot the shopping list at home. I said it was no big deal, we could just guess. She snapped and told me I never paid attention to anything. I stood there next to the hot car and realized I hadn't felt close to her in over a year. Has anyone else had a small, dumb moment make everything click into place?
Read something recently about how breakups often start way before the actual fight, and this is such a perfect example lol. That parking lot heat probably just made the truth impossible to ignore. Sometimes a stupid little argument is really just the last straw on something that was already broken.
Remember my neighbor who ended a 15 year marriage because her husband kept leaving the garage door open and she realized she was just tired of living with someone who didn't care.
Wow, "I never paid attention to anything" over a damn shopping list? That's brutal, lol. I can just picture you standing there in that Florida heat letting that sink in.