My 300th canceled client finally forced me to see a pattern
I do background checks for a talent agency in Austin, so I see a lot of public figures blow up and then come crawling back with statements. Last week I logged my 300th case where someone got dropped from a campaign or show. The shocker was that 240 of them used the exact same phrase in their first apology, something like "I take full responsibility." I started tracking it after case 50 and it held steady. That number made me realize most apologies are just boilerplate PR, not real remorse. Has anyone else noticed a specific tell that shows up way more often than it should?
Guessing your next 300 cases will also feature "I've learned and grown from this" as the follow up. Honestly my own apology game is weak, I just go with "my bad" and hope for the best. Funny how the bigger the mess, the more the words sound copy pasted.